Stop self-Sabotage.
Increase confidence.
Make space for you.

Do you struggle to understand why you hold yourself back and fall short of realizing your full purpose and potential?

As seen in:

Are you suffering with any of these problems?

Are you tired of feeling undervalued and unappreciated, like your needs don’t matter?

Do you struggle with self-discipline and following through on things you want to do?

Is your thinking unclear, and you have trouble knowing what it is you actually want?

Are you frustrated by a chronic lack of time and yearn for a more organized home life?

Do you fear how your choices will impact your loved ones?

Imagine what your life will be like when:

Showing up for yourself has filled you with confidence so that people know your value, and lavish you with the kindness, love, and respect you’ve always craved.

Your rock solid habits and routines guarantee you achieve your goals, and you’re motivated to follow through on all your plans.

You have complete clarity on who you are, what you want, your core values, likes and dislikes.

Your calendar is under control with “me time” as a top priority, and your home is an oasis of peace and rest.

Your children encourage you to take time for yourself because they see how loving and patient it makes you.


It's Not Your Fault

You deserve to experience the freedom of a transformed life. Discover the reasons you hold yourself back and how to create a life you love in the new ebook, It’s Not Your Fault: Subconscious Reasons We Self-Sabotage and How to Stop.

You have everything you need inside you to heal the hurts holding you back from the life you want. It’s time to give yourself permission to live authentically and fulfill your God-given purpose.

What’s inside the ebook?

Chapter 1: determining blind spots

Understand the subconscious reasons you don’t have what you want so you can make room for change.

Chapter 2: attachment styles

Discover your attachment style to transform your relationships and ensure your needs stay front and center.

Chapter 3: family scapegoating

Find out if you were the scapegoat in your family, and why that means you are the mentally healthiest member.

Chapter 4: setting boundaries

Learn to stop people pleasing and self abandoning. Experience a dramatic shift in how people treat you. 

Chapter 5: freedom from toxic people

Protect yourself from toxic people in family, romance, and work. Break free from the damaging influence of toxic people.

Chapter 6: parenting yourself

Learn to  nurture yourself the way your parents should have. Eliminate unhealthy coping skills to achieve your goals.

Chapter 7: negative self-talk

Ditch the mantras. Change your inner narrative by releasing guilt and shame, and telling the truth about what happened to you.

Chapter 8: clean out your closet

Achieve a physical symbol of the internal work you’ve done. Create a streamlined closet en route to a peaceful, organized home.

You're just one step away

Ready to learn how to stop self-sabotage so you can create the life you want?

This ebook is for you if:


what readers are saying...

“It’s Not Your Fault is a breath of fresh air to the self-help world. If you struggle to change your thoughts or habits as the experts advise, you’re not alone and this book is for you. It’s an encouraging blend of validation, conviction, and application. You will feel you’re on a coffee date with someone who understands where you are, but challenges you not to stay there. With Laura’s advice, you can take steps toward a healthier you today.”
– Sarah S.

About the Author

Hi, I’m Laura, a highly sensitive writer and educator who began a journey from total self-abandonment to freedom and fulfillment after my divorce 12 years ago. I threw myself into studying the dynamics of dysfunctional families and learned the secret to setting healthy boundaries. Now I spend my time doing things that feel good, and align with my values and goals.

Maybe like me 12 years ago, you know you’re made for more. But you have responsibilities that make it impossible to carve out time for yourself, let alone plan a future aligned with your goals and values. But I believe it is possible and will teach you transformative strategies I’ve learned through over a dozen years of experiential research.

Have a question?

The estimated reading time of the ebook is 2 hours, plus some short videos which are optional to view.

Due to the digital nature of this product, no refunds will be offered. Please contact laura@laurakconnell.com with any questions.

The ebook is affordably priced at $11.97

You will receive an email with the 145-page pdf download immediately upon purchase.

You will have access to the ebook for as long as you like.

You can pay using Paypal.


what readers are saying...

“It’s Not Your Fault is a great resource for those learning about their own attachment issues or who love someone affected by those issues. The book is easy to read and the material simply presented, although it is significant. I felt like I was sitting down to a conversation with Laura at the table every time I read more of the book. Wherever you are on your journey to wholeness, there is help and encouragement for you in this book. I highly recommend it.”
– Stephanie B.

You're just one step away

Stop self sabotage and find fulfillment