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You’re an intelligent woman interested in personal growth, knowledge and wisdom. You have plenty of self-discipline but still feel like you hold yourself back from reaching your full potential.

You’ve read all the books and done the therapy. You’ve repeated the positive mantras. And even though you know in your head what to do, you fall back into old patterns and wonder if you’ll ever get where you want to be.

You’re always sacrificing yourself for someone else, playing small instead of shining your light. Life feels like it’s passing you by and you’re beginning to give up hope that real change will ever come.

You catch glimpses of your anxious face when you look in the mirror and feel the knot in the pit of your stomach as you lie awake at night. If something doesn’t change, you’re not sure what you’ll do.

I hear you. I’m Laura and I’ve been where you are, feeling that same stress of spinning my wheels and falling short of my full potential. All while living a life that didn’t align with my values.

Raised in a family that ignored my emotional needs, I married into one that did the same. In 2009, that marriage ended marking the beginning of my journey away from self-abandonment.

Over the last 12 years, I’ve studied the dynamics of dysfunctional families and the importance of discovering your values, likes and dislikes after a lifetime of ignoring them.

I realized unmet childhood needs were the source of my self-sabotage and unfulfilled dreams. And I’ve learned the secret to self-parenting through self-compassion and setting boundaries.

I’ve made it my mission to share this knowledge with you, pouring everything I’ve learned into the upcoming book It’s Not Your Fault: Subconscious Reasons We Self-Sabotage and How to Stop. Advance readers are raving about its transformative impact.

I’ve developed a course called The Self-Parenting Solution that helps you overcome the devastating effects of unmet childhood needs. It’s had a massive influence on the lives of the women who’ve taken it.

If you want to grow and live an authentic life, you can learn step-by-step strategies to set boundaries and stop-self abandonment.

Would you like to learn the secret to stopping self-sabotage and becoming your own best advocate? Here are three ways to get what I’ve learned:

1. Take the attachment styles quiz here.

2. Follow me on Instagram here.

3. Take my online course The Self-Parenting Solution here:

Soon, you’ll be living a life not by reaction but by design. An integrated, authentic life that includes you in the list of people you serve.

What would that feel like?

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